Messages from Family & Friends

It's hard to imagine that it's been so long. We're all getting old! I lost another friend to suicide last year. It's weird to think that in not too long, we'd all be gone anyway. I would have liked to have had the last 22 years with Caeth around though. Maybe we'd still be close, maybe we wouldn't. I still think about Caeth a lot. I would have liked to have seen his life and had him be a part of mine. I did a quick rebuild of this site and re-enabled the guestbook. I hope that people still come here every once in a while to remember Caeth. I do.

I don't know if anyone else visits this site anymore, but I do from time to time, just to remember Caeth and all the people who love him and miss him. I can't believe it's been 20 years. I'm sufficiently past the pain now to where I can be grateful that I got to know him and have him in my life and that he's always going to be the person he was when we were young together. As I've watched myself and my friends grow older and experience pain and heartach, I can now appreciate that Caeth's heavy travails are over and he'll be and forever young. I'll always miss him and as long as I'm around I'll keep this site up. I've removed the ability to sign the guestbook and a couple of other things that were no longer working (technologies change!) but if anyone wants to post a note here, shoot me an email. My email is first name dot last name at gmail dot com.

I knew you from high school and you were a good guy. We talked several times about life and what we were going to do after HS. I can't believe you're gone. Way way too soon my friend. I can say all of us will see you soon. Rest in piece Caeth.

Hey Caeth, sometimes time doesn't heal all wounds. Miss you bro. Can't wait till we meet again, to see your huge smile and just philosophize about life.

Happy Heavenly Birthday Caeth.

Just thought about you today Caeth. I pray your family is well.

i wish you were still here cousin. I think about you so much. This sadness just is so hard to shake. I love you and understand that loneliness oh so well. when i see how much Maylie & Butch have grown up, i miss you even more. All of my love

Think about you often, Caeth. Hope heaven is everything you thought it would be.

It's been almost 11 years since my last "post"! I still can't listen to " over the rainbow" without thinking about you. Your kids are beautiful and all grown up. Still wonder why!!? I shared this site with a friend tonight that made an absolutely horrible comment about "why she's here". You're gone, but still able to help others without even knowing it or physically being there for them. I don't think missing you will ever change.

Caeth, I'm reaching out to you in order to gain some sense of understanding. You taught me so much about God's love for us, especially in times of great questioning and misunderstanding. I'm so sorry for your suffering, and especially for not recognizing the importance of, or how to go about, addressing it. Please forgive me. It is helpful to have confidence that you'll be greeting my son Devon with love and understanding. I've always known that you'll look out for others in a way that is beyond inspiring. Please know that your conduit resistance continues to burn as a shining light for we who need to see through the darkness. Thank you, my brother. In Love & Gratitude, Dan